Making first-time guests feel welcome: practical tips
A warm lobby is great. A thoughtful follow-up is better. Here is how churches are building guest pathways with Relius.
You have about seven minutes to make a first impression. From the moment a car pulls into the parking lot to the moment they sit down, a guest is deciding: "Do I belong here?"
But the "welcome" doesn't stop when the service starts. The most critical gap happens in the 24 hours after they leave.
1The 7-Minute Window
Before we talk about software, let's talk about the physical experience.
- Signage: Can I find the kids' area without asking? (Introverts will leave before they ask).
- Coffee: Is it good? (It signals you care about details).
- The "Handoff": Greeters shouldn't just point; they should walk people to the next station.
2Digital Check-in as a Welcome
For families with kids, the check-in station is their first real interaction. If it's slow, clunky, or confusing, they start the service stressed.
Relius Check-in is designed to be a "relief." It's fast. It works. And it captures the data you need to follow up without feeling like an interrogation.
3Automated but Personal Follow-up
Here is the golden rule: Follow up within 24 hours.
If you wait until Thursday, they've already forgotten how they felt on Sunday.
The Ideal Relius Workflow
- Sunday 10:00 AM: Guest checks in kids or fills out a digital connection card.
- Sunday 12:30 PM: Relius automatically sends a "Thanks for coming" text message. (Short, casual, no ask).
- Monday 9:00 AM: Relius creates a task for the Connections Pastor: "Call [Guest Name]."
- Monday 10:00 AM: Pastor calls. If no answer, leaves a voicemail. Logs the attempt in Relius.
- Wednesday 10:00 AM: Automated email: "Here is what to expect next week."
4Guest Pathway: Visit → Connect → Belong
Don't just track "visits." Track the journey.
In Relius, you can set up a Pipeline.
- Stage 1: First Time Guest (Needs a welcome)
- Stage 2: Second Visit (Needs a personal connection)
- Stage 3: Regular Attender (Needs an invite to a group)
Measuring Retention
How do you know if you're "friendly"? Look at the data.
Relius Insights shows you your Guest Retention Rate. If you have 100 guests a year but only 5 stay, you don't have a growth problem—you have a "closing the back door" problem.
By automating the admin work of follow-up, you free up your team to do the relationship work that actually keeps people.
Stop losing guests in the cracks
Use Relius to build a follow-up system that makes every guest feel seen and known.
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